Oblivious to Privilege:Part Two

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Part Two of Haley’s Guest Post… The experience of living in two genders and perceived to have different sexual orientations, has made me aware of privilege and how oblivious I once was to it. I don’t share my experiences as some guilt trip to people who possess privilege or to paint a picture that my [...]

Oblivious to Privilege: Part One

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A guest post from Haley… I’ve lived with society perceiving me in different ways over my lifetime. At one time I was perceived to be a straight white cisgender male (now obviously I was really a closeted transgender woman but the world didn’t know that.) In the year before I gender transitioned, I pushed gender [...]

February in photos

The kids and I made a suncatcher.

February has seriously been the longest month ever.           Of course, I’m not including all the kids, because I don’t really put pictures of them here. And this should include pictures of Haley at school and me at work. And maybe a few of me laying around in my pajama’s aching and sick, [...]

Happenings

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Every once in a while when I get a bunch of small posts that aren’t really big enough to be a post of their own, I do a hodge-podge post. So here’s the latest.   On the drive home from dropping people off in the morning.   Ms Drama: Mom do you looove the hair [...]

The Habit of Peace

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Every season is nice, but each one ends up feeling about 6 weeks too long for my taste. I have always hated the month of January, long, cold, gray, lonely January. And this year February starts with more snow. I may be tired of the cold, but the snow is beautiful. What makes it swirl [...]

On Growing Older

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This post was written by my wife Haley. Today I read a book titled, “In Our Mothers’ house.” (The title means mothers plural, even Word wants to be heterosexist and change it to “Mother’s” house.) This book tells the story about a lesbian couple through their lifespan as an elementary school children’s book. The story [...]

A New Year

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  2013.  I’m not used to it yet. The year sounds silly in my mind, and I find myself writing 2012 on everything still. As we decorated for the holiday season,  I found myself remembering the last time I saw these decorations just one year ago.  How we got wind of the rumors that had [...]

What can I even say?

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  I was in the middle of trying to get a couple posts together. Mr Punk was making it very difficult by climbing all over me. I eventually gave up and turned the computer off and did come housecleaning instead. When he went down for his nap I turned it back on, and all thoughts [...]

Another Day in the Life…

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 I get home from my job at midnight. After being on my feet for 7 hours, it felt really good to sit in the car for the short ride home and I stumble a little on the way to the kitchen door.  Mr. Punk is asleep on the living room floor with his little butt [...]

“The Easy Fix”

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There is this religious long-time understanding of humanity as a broken and in need of being fixed by a savior. The idea that people are messed up and only a third party intervention by a deity is going to make them good and perfect again. In this understanding, people can try all they want to [...]